Fearless,Foxy and Fabulous

Fearless, Foxy and Fabulous is a sense of mind set and life mantra that began on my 17^th Birthday in 2012. Tired and exhausted by my own faults and stupidity, I wanted 3 words to not only typify what I wanted to be as a young woman but to detox myself from society and my own false sense of reality . Eager to be better and do better, I started the challenge. 1 year. 1 year to completely reshape the inner me.

As all challenges one sets for themselves, this challenge was extremely tough. I created several rules or expectations for myself. For example:

1.       I stopped reading teen fiction, particularly teen romance

2.       Stopped thinking that my life was going to be like an American teen flick

3.       Stopped wanting my image to change

4.       Accepting my reality, no matter how boring it was

5.       Boys suddenly became like magazines, flip through but you finish quickly, meaning I had very little brain space dedicated to them. Very little. But as you get to know this wasn't always the case. I made mistakes, because that’s what humans do.

6.       Become the friend and person I would want to encounter

They sound a little overwhelming but I thought they were necessary to effect some real and tangible change. I will sometime in the future explain more in depth each rule.

Along my year long journey, I learned a lot from not only myself but my friends also. I believe that at times we must push ourselves in several ways to gain knowledge, whether by extensive reading, or simply just striving to do better in everyday life like I did.

I won’t lie, I am no genius, but I simply just watch the world around me, absorb and learn. My friends seem to think I have some good stuff to share, so this is how the blog came to fruition. I will blog about issues that I think modern girls are facing, ranging from ‘The Pretty Selfie’ to the everyday issue of confidence. I aim to simply share my view on such topics.

If you don’t like my opinion, fair enough J

If you do, sweet J

Take up the Fearless, Foxy and Fabulous challenge for a year ( follow some or all of my rules or even better make your own) and I promise by the end of the year, you will be one happy, healthier girl ready to fearlessly take on the world, feel great about herself inside and out exuding a certain foxy feel and be rendered fabulous by all those you encounter.